I feel responsible for his death?
OK, last summer I had a dream in which I predicted a death. In the dream, there was screaming and crying everywhere around me. I don’t remember much in the dream (I never do) except that is was blurry and everyone was so upset, except that I never saw any faces; I just heard the sounds of crying and screaming. I asked what was going on, but no one would answer me. Then I saw my cousin Jordan (my favorite cousin as a matter of fact, we’re very close) and I see him crying (which kinda scared me because he’s one of those tough guys who plays football and basketball and wrestling and never loses at a fight and never cries) and I ask him what’s wrong. He responded with, “He’s dead, Cousin. He’s dead.” Then I wake up, and decided to ignore the dream. So as usual, I went on Facebook later that morning, and visited Jordan’s page to see something very unpleasant: apparently over the last few days his cousin Cameron was shot (there was a gun fight and he was trying to stop it but ended up getting shot) so he went to the hospital, where doctors tried saving his life but the night that I dreamed my dream he had died. I never knew Cameron, nor heard of him before, and didn’t even know about this gun fight until that day after my dream. I was shocked, and felt so upset. Cameron was only 18, and he seemed like a nice guy and everyone liked him. However, there were a couple of people who were all like, “Oh, he’s ghetto. Who cares if he dies? He’s trash. He was never going to become anything of himself anyway.” And it really angered me! They were picking on the poor baby just because he was poor! Luckily, Jordan had told them off at the time. It’s been almost a year ever since, and i never got over it. I feel responsible in a way. Sometimes I worry about him and wonder if he’s in Heaven or Hell. Help?
Suggestion by aldah
you should not feel responsible of his death. You have a very special gift that you might ignore. I don’t know if you believe in God, but my interpretation is that Cameron was trying to send you a message because he knew that you are connected to Jordan. You need to pray for him that he souls’ rest in peace. More importantly you should stop feeling guilty of anything
Suggestion by Mike A
What you heard in your dream was something referred to as a Banshee. Basically, it’s a spirit that foretells a death. It used to be that the presence of Banshee was common knowledge to everyone. Yet as things have become more modern, and people start to discount the presence of spirits more and more, things like this get swept under the rug, or dismissed as “coincidence”.
The fact of the matter is, death, especially the act of murder, generates shock waves through the collective human unconscious, and some people are still sensitive to these waves. You happen to be one.
What I suspect might be going on with you, is that you are experiencing simple survivors guilt. But it’s not that simple, because you knew the death was coming, and since you knew about it, you may be feeling like it was your job to prevent it. I have experienced this myself.
What you had was a vision. One that was very real, and you didn’t make up. I would suggest you may want to consider reading up on psychic phenomena. You’ve been given a gift, and there may be something you could do to possibly help people who are in danger if you were to hone this ability. If you have any further questions on this, feel free to write to me on here.
In the mean time, just know that there was absolutely nothing you could have done. You’ve probably heard this before, but understand that this was beyond your control. You were asleep, and yes, you knew, but you had never been taught how to react to this sort of thing. Nobody ever told you “if you see something like this in a dream, get ahold of that person immediately and tell them… something, anything”. It would be the same as if you witnessed a drowning, but didn’t know CPR.
There really wasn’t anything you could have done. All you can do is read up and learn about your ability, and see if there is a better way to handle it next time. It’s sad that someone you care about died. The best thing you can do for the time being, aside from the above, is try and forgive yourself for what has happened. You did not cause this. You didn’t fail anyone, and you are not responsible for this.
And that’s the best advice I can give.
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How do i get over the hurt?
I need help please!!! My past relationship was very hurtful and my ex was always lying to me,.hiding things from me, and cheated on me once or twice that i know of. It seemed like every time i turned around i was hearing something about a girl or finding things like letters and numbers. Well i am now in a serious relationship three years later and he is an amazing guy and i honestly know he would never hurt me, but i am not good with the whole trust thing because of before. I am constantly looking for something to tell me he is cheating and i flip out over something little before finding out what it really is. This is taking a huge toll on our relationship and i can’t stand being like this. I love this man with all my heart and do not want to lose him. Please what can i do to stop all this worrying and believing he will hurt me like my ex???
Suggestion by Shona
Stop thinking and behaving according to what your past was. See and analysis the present. Trust is the basis of all relationships. if you behave like this, you would annoy your beloved.
Suggestion by EWA S
i think its okay to snoop. I’m not trusting, I’m not looking to find proof of cheating (why in the world would i want to find that?) I’m looking to make sure he isn’t!! now a days, considering all the diseases etc I’d rather be safe than sorry, as well getting older I’d rather find out sooner than later.
Sorry I couldn’t help you trust, I guess cause i don’t
I’d like to add though that i do not obsess, but I’m not gulible and keep my eyes open
Suggestion by Mia
sorry – but you will need to trust him! with trust comes love and even more trust! if you trust he will love you, if he is in love with you he will love and trust you even more. if not its nothing you can do, …let him go and seek for only love and trust, with that you will forever be happy!! good luck, be yourself – love yourself and he will love you in return!
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